I need mil advice
My dh and I are going through a rough patch with his family. I don't want to go into too many details on the interwebz, but we had to cut off his bsc sibling. His mother, a normally loving, caring...
View ArticleMIL told DH to put me in my place!
Our daughter was born last May. I went into labor on my own and gave birth naturally on a Sunday. Dh, my mom, and SIL were with me in the delivery room. We went home on a Tuesday. 3 days later on...
View ArticleMIL and vacation guilt
Background:http://community.babycenter.com/post/a39339649/she_wants_to_come_for_easterand:http://community.babycenter.com/post/a40866649/dh_becomes_duh..._right_before_mil_visit Nutshell: my MIL is...
View ArticleIn-laws, daycare, and advice. Long.
Just found this board, and wanted to see if I could get some advice, and to see how much I'm overreacting about my current in-law situation. I had my daughter in April, and she is the first grandchild...
View ArticleJust a bit irritating..
DH and I had a courthouse wedding with no family. ILs (mainly MIL) said she haaaaad to be there even though noone was invited. She called and said she was coming anyway. After we told her no she ended...
View ArticleI need ammo quick
Just found out dh was at a strip club. He is a groomsmen for one of his friends they were supposed to go on a fishing trip but came back early stopped at the local strip club where he is NOT allowed...
View ArticleNoisy & disrespectful MIL
Hello Mums! A bit about my experience with my in laws. My husband is the youngest of three boys, at 33. I'm 28 and we've been together 10 years and we're from the same rural town so, we knew of each...
View ArticleJust can't shake this annoyance...
Tell me if I'm just being bitchy. My MIL is alright. We don't have a lot in common and she is a pretty woe is me type and negative. We see her maybe once every 6-8 weeks or so and she literally lives...
View ArticleMy brother...
I am the eldest in my family of 7, I have 2 brothers who are twins, 20 yrs old. One of them is studious and shows little interest in dating because he is trying to finish college. The other has a...
View ArticleHow to undo 5 years of a weak spine?
My MIL has been passive aggressive towards me since I met them almost 5 years ago. She mixes in the PA comments with ones about how she just 'loves her DIL' and she's 'so lucky to have such a wonderful...
View Articleam I being overly ambitious? slap some sense into me, maybe?
DS is due on 9/29, but I'll be having an RCS on 9/25. My inlaws - I don't even know where to begin. They're boundary stomping assholes. I can't stand them. My MIL is constantly wanting to "help"...
View ArticleAbsolutely traumatizing phone call from my dad. *trigger*
BG: my parents are just recently going through a divorce. After 30 years. My mom has been physically abusive in my past. I wrote a post about a week ago with the whole story but don't know how to link...
View ArticleWhat have you learned from DWIL?
What is one of the biggest things you've learned since being on here? What have you been able to apply to your daily life? For me, it's been that I don't have to say "It's okay" when someone says they...
View ArticleAm I being stubborn?
I'm just gonna jump right in. Mil is a functional alcoholic. She always manages to stay sober for her job but the second she's home from work she's cracking open a magnum of wine and drinks until she...
View ArticleMother in law is a hoarder (long)
And I know we will have to have a conversation about it at some point. Sorry if this rambles or is all over the place. I'm due with my first LO in August (ah! like 20 days! :) ) MIL is a hoarder....
View ArticlePlease help decipher these texts from my sister, the "golden child"
Hi everyone, I have posted in the past about my ILs but won't link because its irrelevant to my current situation. This is my first post about my BSC FOO. Background: Mom is a narcissist and dad an...
View ArticleFather in need of help- confronting my parents tonight
Relevant BG: I'm a recently divorced Dad of two girls, DD1, aged 10 and DD2, aged 7. My parents go through stages of varying religious commitment and are currently deeply involved. Growing up, my...
View ArticleWho would get your kids?
Recently I have wondered what would happen to LOs if something were to happen to DH and I. I discussed this with DH and we decided the best choice was for my parents to have the kids since they see...
View ArticleAcronyms not in the Sticky
Can anyone explain the following (I've looked through the sticky, and these two are not present): - BEC - LC Thanks
View Article"cut up the family photos"
A couple weeks ago my sister in law texted me that she feels I treat her like she is an idiot. A little more background on that.... a week before she sent the text I had put all DDs bottles in the...
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