I feel so unsure right now...
This might be long but bear with me. DH and I have been talking about FIL, and I explained that I'm worried he's trying to make DS his do-over, which I don't want to happen because he's OUR child. DH...
View ArticleKind of OT, neighbor issues
OK, so I have been around since 2008 but I know my neighbor's wife is on here so just wanted to be safe. I need some help with an issue. My neighbor is a SAHD. He has a little girl, my DD's age....
View ArticleVisiting FIL *Trigger* Update pg 5, new update pg 12
Hi everyone, Long time lurker here...new profile to not be identified by family on babycenter. My inlaws are divorced. MIL lives about 2 hrs from us. I do not have a good relationship with her at...
View Articleex SFIL wants to keep DD with no females there
Maybe Im dwelling to much on this but it bothers me. My ex SFIL (honestly he wadsnever even that, he just dated MIL for a fee years) called MIL today and asked if my DD, who just turned 2 in febuary,...
View ArticleBrother, Drugs, and My DS
My brother has been in and out of rehab for over three years. In January, my mom came home to my brother passed out on the couch with four needles in his arm. She said, "enough is enough" and kicked...
View ArticleI don't live in a hostel! I'm gonna lose my mind
I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible. My DH and I have been married for nearly 3 years and have lived in our home for 2.5. 6 months after getting married we got pregnant with DD. My FIL...
View Articletelling ail no nicely
So I am trying to keep the peace with one side of dfs family at his request. They haven't done anything to me but they just aren't my favorite people. Dfs dad is co. That's not a story I want to get...
View ArticleNMom and Sally thread continued
I'm starting a new post before mine reaches the limit. Here is the background link. http://community.babycenter.com/post/a46313359/narc_mom_and_her_sally_--_warning_major_trigger_updates_p
View ArticleHow do you say no to babysitting?
So I am only halfway through this pregnancy and everyone wants to babysit. This is my first and its taken us a long time to get here. I have no intent to leave lo with anyone for at least 6months,...
View ArticleFM are the cherry on a GREAT week.
I can't link background because I am on my phone, but more or less I am just frustrated and want advise on what to do about fm? For instance; apparently GPILs and MIL do a lot for us (not true) because...
View ArticleHow often is it reasonable for MIL to visit
Hi, I have a 6.5 month old, FTM. My husband's family is Italian. My MIL is extremely touchy feely and needy. My husband and I have been together for over a decade, and I used to see my MIL on holidays...
View ArticleNot naming my Kid!
My MIL was over recently and it happened to be when DSS1 decided mom was cool to be around for a bit. We have them Thursday-Sunday/Monday, he is just at the age where it is way more fun to hang out...
View ArticleHow do you avoid pass the baby?
My DH has a very large family. Last time we got together my MIL was holding the baby and playing GMOTY before giving her to an AIL when I went to the bathroom. I took her back when I came out. We are...
View ArticleFinancial woes with MIL
I'm trying to think of the most concise way to describe what is happening, bear with me! My husband's father died when he was 18 (he is 35 now), his parents were separated at the time but his mom was...
View ArticleMIL has a job interview at my work!
My MIL just called to tell me that she was called for an interview for a position at my work. Here's my concern: last time (years ago) that she asked me to be a reference, I didn't know her well enough...
View ArticleIn Law Mama Drama
So I've been married for four years, known my husband for five years and have met my in laws a total of three times. When my first daughter was born (18 months ago) my in laws drove 14 hours to come...
View ArticleMIL Texts..."Our Baby"...grrrrr
Sparing you all too much BG, I am at a crossroads in my relationship with my ILs. I want to set up a clear wall. We don't like each other. I don't respect them & their lifestyle choices. I'm...
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OT- Cute Easter pic!
Just wanted to share my daughters cute Easter pics we just got back! Love how they turned out! Also just for fun the past three years. We have used the same photographer since she was little. :) Love...
View ArticleRacially biased? WWYD?
Long time lurker. Would like opinions on a situation. I'll try to keep this short. I'm at my in laws. When we were last here three years ago, I observed my FIL's interactions with my ODS and was a...
View ArticleAdvice Needed. Long **Trigger**
As usual, long time lurker, first time poster. I have been a member for a long time now but its only been just recently that I have really had an issue. Little BG: My MB is a complete and utter wierdo....
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